Sunday, October 28, 2012

Just another day in Paradise

 Lazy Summer day playing with my precious gifts from God in the back yard.  


 This is a "Mommmmmyy, swing me higherrrr" look :)
 

 My fearless little girl

 Makes me think of my childhood.. There's just something soothing about swinging... unless.. your Molly, then it's all monkey

 Love this one of her.  

 Molly has such a sweet heart.  She picks me a flower (like the one in her hair) almost every day to put in my hair.  She says, "I like to pick you flowers, mommy, because I love you." *Melt!*

 Daniel.  My gentle giant.

 Daniel may be the same size as Molly but he totally a 2 year old boy.  He loves wrestling and is totally into all things "Cars" now, but even though he is becoming a big boy now, I still get unlimited 'smooches' :)

Best Friends. 

Random Summer Fun

Random Summer Fun





Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Fourth of July 2012

HAPPY FOURTH OF JULY 2012!!!

 4th of July in England!!  This year we stayed home for the 4th.  The military base threw a pretty nice shin dig complete with the a USO American Idol tour! 

The kids loved the carnival rides, food, games, bouncy castles, everything!

Bryon and I loved seeing all the red white and blue (including in the bake sale items above), smelling 'fair' food, seeing families relaxing and spending time together, just like if I was home going to the Cleveland County Fair.


 and if that wasn't great enough..  to top it all off,


right in the middle of everyone's festivities,


 the Star Spangled Banner started playing on the loudspeakers.



The chaos stopped.  Hundreds of soldiers, spouses and children all became silent as we listened to that proud song and saw Old Glory waving in the breeze.

Soldiers all over the field stood in salute to our Anthem. Solemn faces, proud hearts and dedication to our great nation flooded the hearts of every American present there that day. 

In the midst of a foreign land, home was very close,


on this

our Independence Day.

Sunday, May 20, 2012

My New Website!

I invite you all to check out my new personal website
www.sometimeshewhispers.weebly.com

I have started a new blog on this site. This blog will continue to be my personal blog for family and friends. Once I update the space allowance on this blog, I will resume posting pictures as before.

Thanks for everyone's patience! I have so much to post from our trip to the US!

Friday, May 18, 2012

America the beautiful

Howdy folks..

Sorry for the lack of posts lately.. Not because I haven't wanted to post but we are on vacation in the US for three weeks and have had little time online. Plus, I am no longer able to upload pics to this blog so I have to sit down and figure out how I am going to restructure my blog from this point on.

We have had a great time in the US of A. Our first week was spent in sunny Florida. Lots of pool time, shopping time, visit to the Hard Rock cafe, and a beautiful wedding in Panama City..

Then we headed to North Carolina (kakalacki) for a week of insanity and fun. We saw our eye doctor and both got glasses, our dentist, Bryon saw an oral surgeon and had his wisdom teeth removed, dermatologist, got professional photos of the kiddies taken, had an evening with my college roommates in Charlotte, spent two days at the Great Wolf Lodge in Charlotte for Daniel's birthday, spent some great time with my girls Kate and Melissa who drove all the way from Maryland/Va Beach to spend the week with me, soo much more..

I did some 'Mall shopping" by myself which ROCKED. For those of you in the UK, you know that going to an indoor shopping mall and seeing any store you want is a major rarity, so it was fabulous! And actually trying on clothes without kids pulling on me, screaming, hiding in the racks and scaring me to death thinking they were lost, you know, normal mom stuff, lol.

We have eaten some yummy food.. Yamoto's Express three times, take out pizza three times, KFC, Cold Stone, Chickfila, Dairy Queen, Cookout, oh yes.. Fast food nation, here I come! :)

Now we are in Pennsylvania for a week with Bryon's family. I've taken my first nap of the trip home, it was glorious. I had forgotten how spectacular naps are especially when your so tired you are literally falling asleep sitting.

I'm so thankful for this time at home. It has been almost 2 years since we have all been home together. I swore I would not drive on this trip but I have many times. Ya'll can pray for me when I get back to the UK because on my last trip home, I got in a car wreck my first day back to the UK!! I was driving on the wrong side of the road! ah!

I think my southern accent is coming back a bit. We will see :) Thanks to all my UK friends for holding the fort down. Time is going by too fast..

PS. Still looking for input on blog sites, recommendations, any info or wisdom you've gleaned from the blogging world. I plan on making some big changes to my blog when I back to the UK and settle in a bit..





Saturday, May 12, 2012

"Why the Ten Commandments can't be cut to six"

I read this article on foxnews.com this morning and was shocked, for two reasons..

First, that a judge actually considered altering the 10 commandments?!?! What! Even if you don't follow a particular religious doctrine, you certainly don't have the right to change it because you are a judge and feel like it..

Second, this journalist actually took a stand in favor of preserving the commandments.. I don't know this woman or what she believes, but wow, you don't see that stand taken very often in mainstream media today.. Kudos to her!




"Why the Ten Commandments can't be cut to six"
By Lauren Green

Published May 11, 2012
Taken from FoxNews.com

When a U.S. District Judge suggested that reducing the Ten Commandments to six would help solve a dispute between the ACLU and The Giles County, Virginia School District, he was wading into deep theological territory...perhaps unknowingly.

To reduce the Decalogue to the last six is ignoring its comprehensive structure. In research for the book I'm working on, "The Lighthouse: God as a Living Reality," I look at the world through the prism of the First Commandment. It's a pretty easy claim to make that all the law, in fact the world, basically hinges on the first edict.


You see the Ten Commandments, the laws that the Bible says Moses brought down from Mount Sinai, are broken up into two categories, the first four commandments are about mankind's relationship to God.

They are:

1. I am the Lord your God, you shall have no other gods before me.

2. You shall not make for yourself any carved image, or any likeness of anything that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth; you shall not bow down to them nor serve them.

3. You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain, for the Lord will not hold him guiltless who takes His name in vain.

4. Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy.

The next six are about mankind's relationship to creation, other people, things, etc.

They are:

5. Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the Lord your God is giving you.

6. You shall not murder.

7. You shall not commit adultery.

8. You shall not steal.

9. You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.

10. You shall not covet

In the New Testament, Jesus summed up the commandments with just two. First was to love the Lord God with all your heart, soul and mind,... and the second was what we now refer to as the Golden Rule, to love others as yourself. That Golden rule would be the last six commandments.

To his credit U.S. District Court Judge Michael F. Urbanski thought keeping the last six commandments would work, after all stealing and murder are already punishable crimes.

The problem is, once the first commandment goes, the whole ten are nothing more than suggestions. The reason those six come second is because the Bible is saying that only when God is revered can mankind avoid the pitfalls of committing adultery, murder, stealing, etc.

It's by putting God first that we can put all other loves in perspective.

The First Commandment: I am the Lord your God, you shall have no other gods before me," is not only a commandment but a statement of fact. There are no other gods, but God.

But we human beings are prone to make idols out of anything: romance, money, sex, beauty-- not all bad things. Some of them can be quite good, like family. But when good things are turned into ultimate things, they become idols, small 'g' gods.

Theologians like Dr. Tim Keller, author of "The Reason For God" and "Counterfeit Gods" makes the point that we cannot violate commandments two through ten without first violating number one. For if we murder, steal, covet or any of the other deadly sins, we are in fact putting a need for something above our need for God. That is why the first four, and particularly the first one, are there in the order that they are.

Joy Davidman, a Jewish convert to Christianity and wife of author C.S. Lewis, wrote in her book "Smoke on the Mountain," that "In the last analysis, there are only two things to worship -- the true power and the false power; God or the devil; God or self."

Separating the Ten Commandments as if they were mere suggestions negates the whole of the law. As Dostoyevsky said in "The Brothers Karamazov," "If there is no God, then everything is permissible."

If we could really live out those six commandments on our own, as the judge suggests, then it would seem likely that we wouldn't have need for the judicial system in the first place. But the very fact that the court systems are clogged with murderers, thieves and con artists, is a testament to another reality.


Friday, May 11, 2012

Out of space..

Was just informed by blogger that I am out of picture space... hmmm

So until I figure out how to increase my space or switch to a new site, no more pics..

Sorry about that! Guess I have had this blog for quite awhile and nothing nowadays is free, except Jesus, so it was bound to happen..

I'm considering splitting my blog anyways.. Keeping this one as a closed site for posting pics of us for family and friends and opening a new one for everything else (opinions, recipes, interests, business, etc)

Anyone have any suggestions or experience with different blog sites and types?

Thursday, May 10, 2012

The vote is in!

So Amendment voting is over and the results are in.. It passed.

I'm thankful this is over, let me tell you that. Things are getting a little ugly in the facebook realm.

I've been thinking about this great country we live in and how it is set up as a democracy.. President, congress, courts, check and balances, majority rule...

I always find it interesting watching the minority after a loss in any major election. Some handle their loss with dignity and gain the respect of others while others get angry, rude and loose whatever respect they have left.

I looked at a map of the Marriage Amendment voting and only like 6 or 7 counties actually voted against the amendment of the 100 total counties in NC. 60% of people supported it. Now regardless of what I feel about the amendment, that is clearly a majority of the consitituants of NC supporting this particular amendment. It is disheartening for me seeing the minority blowing up facebook with insults about our state. Really, is this necessary?

Seems like the mature approach would be to understand and respect that the process of majority rule was upheld regardless of whether or not you like the outcome. Being a prior military wife myself, I have seen and heard firsthand how precious it is that we have these coveted freedoms. Very few people around the world are able to go out to a polling station and campaign for their cause without worry of persecution or death even.

Does this mean that those who are for gay marriage should sit back and forget about their passion? of course not. But loose with dignity, drink some sweet tea and start your campaign again next election.

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

4- step journey to peace

I came across this website today and am a HUGE fan!

I know many people who have questions about Christianity but hang ups with going to church. If that is you, this is a great place to start your faith journey. I will say that I'm a big advocate for being involved in a church body for many reasons, some being encouragement, spiritual growth, and Kingdom growth, but sometimes it is hard to take that first step and go into a church where you don't know anyone and don't really even know why you should be there.

This website takes you through the question, "Who is Jesus?" and outlines a simple "4-step journey to peace". There are also some real life people sharing their stories which I totally love. Nothing impacts me more than hearing people share where they are in life, helps me feel a little more normal realizing I'm not the only one with struggles. There is even a link at the bottom of the page that you can ask questions about life, faith, struggles, whatever.

After reading it, maybe God will seem a little less scary and Christianity a little more tangible to you.


Monday, May 7, 2012

Shelby Surprise!

As if I needed any more 30th birthday celebrations.. SURPRISE!!  My wonderful family threw me a surprise party today complete with a UNC Chapel Hill birthday cake and cake pops, Sub Station pita bread subs (YUM!), Diet Cherry Lemon Sun Drop, and good ole NC BBQ (aka pulled pork for you yanks reading this).  Thank you everyone so much for coming.  I felt so loved and special. 

We may have only been in Shelby two days so far but I've seen so many people that I've really missed since moving across the pond.  Since our last visit, there have been so many babies born, kids starting school, house additions, new jobs, new romances.. despite the differences, there is so much the same and boy is it a comfort coming home...

 Bettis family picture (minus a few)


 Me and my cousin Kristen.  We planned our outfits


 
Some of my sweet high school girlfriends.  We calculated that we have been out of high school for 12 years now.  Great having friendships stand the test of time.
 

Aunt Cindy and Daniel.  


Nana, Grandpa and my sweet niece Anna


Bettis ladies :)  Three generations.. 


Molly is soaking it up


Love this one :)


PS.  Thanks Emily for the pictures!!!